Friday, January 18, 2013

Fear is a mind killer big brother...


            Emotions play an important part in our daily lives. Fear is one such emotion that is pre-programmed into all animals and people as an instinctual response to potential danger. As for what is fear biologically dialogue, when a person experiences fear, certain areas of their brain such as the “amygdale” and the “hypothalamus” are immediately activated and appear to control the first physical response to fear. Chemicals such as adrenaline and the stress hormone “cortisol” are released into the blood stream causing certain bodily reactions such as rapid heart rate, increased blood pressure, tightening of muscles, Sharpened or redirected senses, dilation of the pupils, increased sweating. People who have experienced this will often remember the moment when action took place and how time seemed to slow down mentally. They knew exactly what to do without consciously thinking about it, they had great strength. Researchers say some have even been able to lift a car to save their trapped child and they felt no pain. All these are protective mechanisms to increase our chances of survival.
While it is important to be aware of potential and real threats, it is just as important to react correctly to them. For most of us, our initial alarm response subsides as soon as we realize that there is no actual threat or danger. However, this is not always the case. There are many people for whom fear becomes maladaptive, as they struggle with anxiety, phobias and panic attacks. Children are also at risk of overactive fear, as they are not always able to rationalize fears that are unrealistic or unfounded. Children experiencing fears and phobias feel very real threats and parents often have difficulty consoling or reassuring their child that there is actually nothing to fear. Childhood anxiety can have a negative impact on their healthy development and may influence them to bigger problems in later life. Thus meaning “Fear” has its positives and negatives.
Fear is an emotional response to a perceived threat. It is a basic survival mechanism occurring in response to a specific stimulus, such aspain or the threat of danger. Some psychologists such as John B. Watson, Robert Plutchik, and Paul Ekman have suggested that fear is one of a small set of basic or innate emotions. This set also includes such emotions as joy, sadness, and anger. Fear should be distinguished from the related emotional state of anxiety, which typically occurs without any external threat.

Additionally, fear is related to the specific behaviors of escape and avoidance, whereas anxiety is the result of threats which are perceived to be uncontrollable or unavoidable. Worth noting is that fear almost always relates to future events, such as worsening of a situation, or continuation of a situation that is unacceptable. Fear could also be an instant reaction, to something presently happening.
 Fear is not always adaptive. A small amount of fear before an important speech serves a purpose. This purpose is to encourage you to focus on your topic and avoid making a fool of yourself by making simple little mistakes. This is one of the types of fear that can be useful to sharpen our minds. However, some types of fear that are excessive can become crippling, or even make you feel like escaping when it is not appropriate to do so. When fear gets out of control, or when we fear something that cannot actually harm us, it can escalate to a point where it effects our daily functioning. Fear is no longer adaptive if we find we are constantly afraid of events that haven’t happened yet. Future orientated fear is known as anxiety. While fear happens at the moment danger arises, anxiety is characterized by apprehension because we don’t know what’s going to happen next, and we cannot control upcoming events. Experiencing an alarm response when there is in fact nothing to be afraid of is known as panic. Many people are familiar with this type of fear and it is often accompanied by a phobia. There are numerous causes of fear. Some are better known than others such as fear of flying or Aviophobia, or fear of spiders, which is Arachnophobia, and fear of confined spaces by which is also called Claustrophobia. Others types of fear not so well known are fear of mirror Catoptrophobia, and fear of hair-Chaetophobia. Fear of being tickled by feathers Pteronophobia, and Papyrophobia or fear of paper are yet other not so well known causes of fear. Still new causes of fear are being diagnosed.  Panic is an immediate physical response to unrealistic and irrational fears. This can have a huge affect on both your emotional and physical well-being – as well as your ability to reach your full potential.
Fear can affect a lot of things. Fear can affect things such as the way people go about their daily lives, the way they react to certain things, and also their state of mind. Fear can also affect someone’s performance. Fear can also persuade you to set easier goals and do less than your are capable of, by which sets your performance level at an all time “low”. Fear can trigger internal defense systems and fools people into thinking that you have perfectly good reasons not to change. The fear of failure or disappointment reduces the number of available alternatives and keeps people from pursuing them. One the important forms of fear that can affect a person’s performance is the fear of making mistakes. It causes indecisiveness and confusion. For example, whenever I was put into the game during my high school basketball games, I developed the fear of making mistakes, due to the fact that in practice whenever a person make a mistake they have to either run or be substituted for another player. Fear stops people from knowing what they really want. Fear warps people’s whole perception of their life and what they can do to make it better. Fear keeps a person from asking for help when they really need it or benefiting from the emotional support that was offered to them. Fear also keeps them from asserting themselves and persuades them to settle for what they must settle for instead of going after what they really want. To calm their fears, they develop unhealthy habits and behavior problems. Fear often makes them give up just one step short of their goal at hand. Fear keeps people from taking risks.
There are a number of natural herbal and homeopathic remedies that can help with overcoming fears. Fear becomes a problem that needs to be addressed when it turns into anxiety, panic or phobias. Herbs such as Melissa Officinalis, Lavandula Augustifolia, Chamomile and Passiflora Incarnata  and  certain types of marijuana (GO WEED) are just a few examples of a natural approach to overcoming fears by reducing stress, calming the nervous system and relaxing a fearful mind. Many natural remedies for fear and anxiety combine a number of calming herbs to achieve the best results for overcoming fears and addressing all the different symptoms of a panicked response. The most affective and best way to achieve your goals while dealing with fear is to face your fear with positive fear. For example, even though I was scared and nervous when I was put into the game, I used it to my advantage.  What I did was, I took my fear of making mistakes and I turned them into anger motivation. I got angry at the fact that I become nervous and scared, so I used my anger to developed an “attack mode” to whereas though I played with anger and attacked the rim with no fear at all.
In conclusion, I feel that in order to still achieve your goals while dealing with fear, people have to use their fear and turn it into what I call “positive fear”. By which this type of fear is used to the person’s own advantage, and can be used to ultimately defeat all kinds of fear. Thus, making the person that was first tormented by fear, into some who is so full of bravery and valor that they have become fearless. After all, fear is a mind killer………….

 Chuck Dueces
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